A life to live….

Now, here we are, a white page, an open heart ready to speak, to yell to cry its own truth, nobody else, just its own. 

We are all different with one thing in common: we can feel lonely when we need love. Don’t lie to yourself, we all need love, we just look for it in different ways or find it under different forms, but love is love and the fact is…we need it! Why? because it is part of our life!

The key in life is :  it is never too late. We have to keep faith, follow the path of love, give love away as much as we can, under all forms and any ways….be loving, be caring for every human being, animals, plants etc…because there is a law in the universe, what goes around comes around so let it go, let it be and it will come back to you in some unexpected ways!

Don’t be afraid of love!

Learn to forgive to whoever hurt you and move on. the best way to let go all those feelings that can trouble you, is to write them on a piece of paper, write everything that comes into your mind, you will feel an incredible sense of relief. Put the piece of paper away and few days later, try to read it again, perhaps then, you will understand what is going on inside of you.

Most of the time, everything looks so complicated, but you have to tell yourself, “it only looks like it!”

We make it complicated, we always want to blame someone else for our mistakes, why? because we are human and human are not perfect!

In the mid time we all have an “emergency” work to do, the world is turning wrong, we are forgetting about: respect, love and caring.

Now the goal is what can we do to go back on the right track and rediscover about love and values of life?

Let’s start little by little, one step after an other, let’s begin with our own family, friends and neighbors and let it spread over, wishing and praying it will gain the whole planet. It won’t be a waist of time and it is going to be the beginning of your self healing.

I conclusion, the first step to love and to a better life, will be to accept your mistakes, to learn form them and never blame anybody for your own choices, then, listen to your Soul as your Soul is connected to love. If all decisions were made under the influence of love, a lot of more good decisions would be made. 

If you are ready to heal, you can heal and you will heal the world.

Life is like the sun, it rise in the the morning and slowly goes down in the evening to light up an other part of the earth. In between, it let us time to enjoy it, minute by minute, so we can be prepare for a brand new day!

We are all connected with the universe, every little thing happen for a reason! Find the rason and you will understand your purpose!

Naty – 06-17-2013

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What I’ve learn so far about Life!

Life is not fair! That is what we tell ourselves every day, or if not… often enough!

But life doesn’t need to be fair; it is just what we make of it.

We take the decisions, good or bad, but it is our decisions, our free will and at the end, if we make a mistake, we can only blame ourselves. The only good thing is that we will learn from our mistakes  so we won’t repeat them again and again (hopefully…lol!!!).

Some..11 years ago, I took the decision to come in the US, so my son could be growing up with his father that was already living there. I left behind everything that really count for me, my mother, my brother, all my family, I was trying to recreate my own family, but it didn’t work that way!

My son grew up in an American society, I built my own little life too…that is when his father, that could not adapt himself to the American way, went back in France…but me and my son, we were at a point of no return…

My son was already in high school, lost his French writing and couldn’t go back to the French way! So I had no other choice than staying in the US where I built up a new life anyway!

I miss my family, I cannot return as often as I would like to.

It was my choice, was it a mistake? Future will let me know; I still think that my son has a better chance of a better life, here, in America as Europe is full of economic problems and a lot of people out of work.

But whatever is the outcome, I take full responsibility!

And that is the way it has to be for everything in life.

About relationship with others

It is not about you! Remember those 5 little words…it is not about you!

It is very difficult to live with others;

Relationship are not easy! When you are with the person you want to spend the rest of your life with, you have to know that every day is not going to be an easy day! There is going to be some wonderful moments and there is going to be some difficult moments.

Everybody has demons running around their minds, skeletons in their closets too…and when they come out, it creates some waves of sadness…fears….incertitude… and those waves creates fights, words that we don’t means etc…

So when you have a fight with your partner, try to remember, it is not about you but more likely, about his or her own demons running around too much in his or her mind!

Walk away, don’t answer, wait until the storm pass….after the storm the sun will shine again!!!

Then if you still have doubt, put in the balance: what are the good things that this relationship is bringing to me and what are the bad things.

The answer will come clearly if you have more good things than bad thing or vice e versa! No brainer!

In Conclusion

Life is unfair,  just you can make it fair, you make the choices, but remember, life is beautiful, there is nothing like a sunrise or a sunset, there is nothing like a smile, there is nothing like LIFE in general! It brings you a lot of blessings that you have to recognize along your path, even in your darkest days you can find a light…if you want to…Yes…if you decide to change the course of your life in case you don’t like where it is going.

But never ever blame anybody or let anybody take credit for what you did to YOUR life! And one more thing….Be humble and always remember where you come from!

I’m Normal, so what!

It sounds ridiculous … CRAZY … to make a blog about being normal, but sometimes I feel, and I am sure I am not the only one,  that we are living in an “abnormally NUTZ” society.

What is the definition of NORMAL:

As per Merriam Webster On line dictionary

“not deviating from a norm, rule or principle, conforming to a type, standard or regular pattern; free from mental disorder…Sane

Synonym is Regular.”  I am just regular ….

Let me give you an example, I came in the States with my son, 10 years ago, at the time  he was only 9 years old.

I recently became a Citizen,  I was able to file for my son, so he can become a Permanent Resident ;  After all, he grew up here, went to school and got his High School Diploma in the USA. I thought it would just be a “formality”

I filled out the information, they register him as a resident and it’s done!!! THAT WOULD BE A NORMAL PROCEDURE IN A NORMAL WORLD!.

WRONG! This is not happening!

There  was an interview that took more than 6 months to get …  I had to bring all kinds of documents and justifications. Unfortunately I was missing 1 document, guess what…My son’s residency was denied! Now I have to re-apply, with a lawyer this time, so I can make sure (at least I hope) that my son will get his residency. It cost me Time, a lot of money and so much stress!!!  AND ME THE MOM IS A CITIZEN!!!!

I am normal! R U

I am in line at a supermarket … my credit card in my hand, ready to put my stuff on the counter, pay and get out of here, (don’t know about you) but, I have better things in my life to do than to spend my time in a supermarket … LOL … But, in front of me … the people DO NOT have their money or card ready, they’ve got all kinds of things, all kinds of questions … Hello … it is just FOOD!!!  and … all kinds of stories to tell to the cashier. THEIR NEW BEST FRIEND …. ..   It’s even CRAZIER when you are in the 12 items line and THEY have a full cart just in front of you but the cashier takes them anyway….

The world is insane … what is up is down and what is out is in …

I am Normal … I am NOBLE … I CARE

ARE U ???? DO U ???

WRITE ME YOUR  NORMAL :::: INSANITY

Bring me your CRAZY … NUTTY stories …

IS INSANITY now the rule ???

Has the normal, respectful world been reduced to REGULAR???? ARE WE INVISIBLE ??? DO WE EXIST ??? DO WE COUNT ??? Does anyone care ???